As I really have no other idea for a solution, I just keep asking questions that maybe help:
do you have the full moon quests? (I had those first, then a day later realized there was another event button in between the others to the right and a new quest on the left.)
Do you see the new roamers in your friends manors? as well as the pilgrim snatchin? (whatsiname - the one, that wants the hats) How does your giftlist look? any Pilgrim hat/tea/silvercoin/anthem gift? any of those requested on your wall? Can you gift those? (We had those already a few days before the event, I think) or do you have empty requests as if not updated? ...
do you have the full moon quests? (I had those first, then a day later realized there was another event button in between the others to the right and a new quest on the left.)
Do you see the new roamers in your friends manors? as well as the pilgrim snatchin? (whatsiname - the one, that wants the hats) How does your giftlist look? any Pilgrim hat/tea/silvercoin/anthem gift? any of those requested on your wall? Can you gift those? (We had those already a few days before the event, I think) or do you have empty requests as if not updated? ...