List of items required for quests

I have been looking for a list of items that I should hold onto, collections that I should wait to charge, Chargers and banishing tools I should hoard due to quest requirements. Does such a list exist?

Also, I have been rewarded for quests that are not in my list. Does this happen often?

Thanks!

I've been wondering about this myself... seems I picked a particularly confusing time to start playing. With the easter event, the full moon, the cake, the rooms in the yard, and the regular rooms I can't keep all the quests straight. I can't tell which ones I should actually be working on vs which ones I should be waiting until I get to a higher level.

I made the apparently common mistake of banishing whatever I could banish and charging whatever I could charge without knowing any better waiting for quests. Now I'm worried about doing anything without being specifically told, ha! I used to get glacial swords in almost every room and so I casually banished snow elves to my hearts content... now that I need hundreds of them for actual quests I'm hardly getting any at all! Argh!

In particular now I'm wondering about the gypsies. I healed the general so now I need gold horsehoes to trade with the gosha, but I don't have the golden saddle, (I also didn't have it to trade with the baron for the whipped cream, but luckily I got that from a snatchin-cook) so should I start trading with them or wait until I get associated quests from the main house?